September 17, Colombo (LNW): We thought of extracting the note that Rizly illyas, a former president of Sri Lanka Rugby, left with the photo here, because of the facts of human love in it.
Beautiful knots without splits
He recent rugby knockout final between two prestigious schools ended not only with a thrilling match but also a powerful display of sportsmanship. One team emerged victorious, while the other experienced defeat. Yet, what stood out was the attitude of two boys from opposing sides who, after the intense competition, showcased the essence of being humble in victory and gracious in defeat. Their actions on the field were a refreshing reminder of how sports can unite, even amid rivalry.
Having had the privilege of attending both schools, and growing up within the cultural frameworks of Buddhism, Christianity, and Islam, I witnessed how these environments shaped me. However, I’ve seen anger, animosity, and divisive sentiments in alumni group chats, particularly in the rugby circles. While it’s easy to assume this hostility is bred at home, it’s clear that the broader political and social culture of division has infiltrated even the sports world.
The attached photo of the two boys tells a different story, a story of hope. It prompts us to step back, reflect, and reassess the way we engage with each other. Sports should foster respect and unity, not fuel division. As alumni (OBA), it’s our responsibility to bring back that respectability, not just to rugby, but to all aspects of life.
With over 34 years in the sport, I’ve seen both the good and the bad. But moments like these remind me that the beauty of the game lies not just in winning or losing, but in how we treat each other, both on and off the field. Let’s remember that, in rugby and in life, humility and grace go a long way.
